"Happy childhood" notwithstanding, most of us are living out the NOT OK feelings of a defenseless CHILD wholly dependent on OK others for stroking and care. By the third year of life, says Dr. Harris, most of us have made the unconscious decision I'M NOT OK-YOU'RE OK. This negative Life Position, shared by successful and unsuccessful people alike, contaminates our rational ADULT potential -- leaving us vulnerable to the inappropriate, emotional reactions of our CHILD and the uncritically learned behavior programmed into our ...

I'm Ok--You're Ok 1993, Avon Books

ISBN-13: 9780380720552

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I'm Ok, You're Ok 1976, Avon Books, New York, NY

ISBN-13: 9780380007721

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