Edition: First Printing
Binding: Hardcover
Publisher: Delacorte Press
Date Published: 1976
ISBN-13:9780440098829ISBN:0440098823
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Binding: Paperback
Publisher: Dell
Date Published: 1980
ISBN-13:9780440506386ISBN:0440506387
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Binding: Trade paperback
Publisher: Dell Publishing Company
Date Published: 1980
ISBN-13:9780440506386ISBN:0440506387
Description: Good. No dust jacket as issued. cover is a little dinged up, but otherwise great condition. Trade paperback (US). Glued binding. 160 p. Audience: General/trade. read more
"I loved this book! It mostly explains why a two-year-old does what they do. I felt like this book was just like opening my two-year-old's brain and telling me what's inside. My absolute favorite part was at the very end. The book gives you a list of toys that are perfect for this age and a list of books that are really good to read to your two-year-old. I will definitly read the other ones they have as he gets older."
"The second book in a great series about childhood development. Informative, straightforward, and reassuring that your child is "normal". Recommends a relaxed approach to undesired behavior rather than encouraging attempts to force your child into something developmentally beyond their ability."
"This book was written in 1976. I was 4. But I haven't seen a more recent book that so specifically describes approximate age related behaviors and how they relate to discipline issues. Ames' writing is easy to read. It's gentle, kind, and compassionate, reminding me to be, too.
I laughed when Ames described that one of two year olds favorite games is putting their dolls or stuffed animals to bed. I often see my daughter spreading a favorite blanket over her stuffed animal babies.
She describes some of her favorite techniques "tricks" for two year olds.
- Use their dependence on rituals, for example, at bedtime. But be sure a make it simple because the slightest variation can be upsetting.
- Avoid ultimatums. "You have to pick up all your toys before dinner." This sets you up to "be stuck with trying to push through an order." She says it's better to say "Let's pick up toys now." and do it together. Another example is "We'll go out to play just as soon as we've picked up." Notice the "we"? Actual parent picking up is implied here.
- Using questions rather than commands can encourage compliance. "Where do the blocks go?"
- If something must be done, then be firm. I guess this is kind of a pick your battles attitude, although she doesn't use that phrase.
- Try to avoid head on clashes. Use diversion, distraction, or a change of scene. This doesn't mean give in, just distract while, for example, dressing a child who does not want to be dressed.
- Sometimes actions speak better that words, like leading a child to the bathroom instead of arguing about if they have to go or not.
- She says giving choices works with some children this age, but can often backfire because they have difficulty making decisions. If you do give choices in may be helpful to know that children this age often choose the last choice.
I enjoyed this book and thought it was full of good advice, although definitely on the lenient side."
"I really enjoyed this--albeit somewhat outdated--series. There's nothing revolutionary in here, but it's a reassuring voice that tells you what your irrational little critter is going through. Unlike other parenting books that are packed with more information than you need (thorough lists of equipment, possible meals, etc.), this one focuses solely on your two yo's mental and emotional life and how it affects you. A quick read that gave me an extra dose of empathy."
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