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You Can't Say That to Me!: Stopping the Pain of Verbal Abuse: An 8-Step Program

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You Can't Say That to Me!: Stopping the Pain of Verbal Abuse: An 8-Step Program

by Suzette Haden Elgin

About this title: You can' t say that to me " Can' t you do anything right?" " I can' t believe you would feed that junk to your child " " What is this? And don' t tell me it' s a casserole, I already know that." " If you really cared about me, you wouldn' t behave this way." Sound familiar? Each of us occasionally feels the sting of very unpleasant language from those who are closest to us-- spouses, employers, friends, relatives. But frequent and repeated use of unanswerable questions, scalding accusations, sarcasm, insinuations, and even icy silence is more than simply unpleasant; it is abusive, ... read more

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You Can't Say That to Me: Stopping the Pain of Verbal Abuse--an 8-Step Program

by Suzette Haden Elgin

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Binding: Hardcover Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Date Published: 1995-02-16 ISBN-13: 9780471003953 ISBN: 0471003956

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by Elgin, Suzette Haden

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Description: New. Providing a practical approach to ending or controlling verbal abuse, an eight-step program uses the author's celebrated Gentle Art of Verbal Self-defense techniques and offers exercises and activities for dealing with common forms of verbal abuse. Original. read more

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