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The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships

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The Dance of Intimacy: A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships

by Harriet Goldhor Lerner, PH.D.

About this title: All intimate relationships can be terribly damanged by too mcuh distance, too mcuh intensity or simply too much pain. In clear, direct and dramatic terms, psychotherapist Harriet G. Lerner illustrates how we can move differently in these key relationships -- be they with a distant or unfaithful spouse, a depressed sister, a difficult mother, an ... read more

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By Miss H, Gangneung, Korea, Republic of

"I read this book during a trying time and it completely changed my life."

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By Robin, High Point, NC

"Yes, your relationships in your family of origin will come back to haunt you always....."

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Jul 30, 2009
By Rebecca, Moorpark, CA

"I read Dance of Anger as soon as I finished Dance of Intimacy. The lessons of each book are the same, just with different examples and a slightly different focus. I gave both books five stars because I like the subject so much and I think Lerner does a great job of clearly explaining how to practically apply the concepts.

I LOVE and embrace the concepts of patterns in relationships, overfunctioning/underfunctioning, family systems and triangles. The most powerful message I took from these books is when you are stuck in a pattern with another person that causes yourself anger/anxiety/frustration etc. you cannot change the other person, but you can change your own part in the pattern, thus changing the pattern (for better or worse). Both books are empowering and eye opening.

Favorite messages from Dance of Anger (paraphrased)
- Venting or suppressing anger does not solve the problem that anger signals.
- Once a pattern is established, both parties perpetuate that pattern.

Favorite quotes from Dance of Intimacy
- "We are always navigating relationships in the direction of greater or lesser degrees of self."
- "The will to change and the desire to maintain sameness coexist for good reason.""

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May 24, 2009
By Bridgett, Glen Ellyn, IL

"I learned a lot from this book and could relate to a lot of the problems brought up. I feel like I have a better understanding how I can deal with certain interpersonal problems."

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